journey

i mean everyone says it's a journey right? it's not surgery and iv's and prescription drugs and cat scans and pet scans and mri's. no. it's a journey. and of course that implies that at the end you will be somewhere. and of course with these kinds of things that is not always true.

and i am not in the mood for the pharmacy soft rock and when that blue cross girl told me she was trying to help me i cut her off no you are not.

people have all kinds of well meaning or mean meaning advice. how easy it must be to live your life like you are healthy and going to live forever when you are those things. could someone tell me though how do i pretend i can walk when i can't walk. am i supposed to put on jogging shoes and then drag my leg down the trail on my crutches. i mean i'm not giving up but it doesn't help me to have everyone pretend that nothing has changed.

things have changed. my leg shrunk. i have vertigo. don't ask me if my day was good if i tell you i have been up all night vomiting. i am holding on i am finding my peace but that doesn't mean that having a lesion on my spinal cord is pleasant.

there is a clarity. there is a tangibility. there is an acceptance.

there is the realization that my days in this world may or may not be as long as i expected. and the important things can't be planned for anyway.

and i have had a good run. and i hope to keep running. but i open to whatever i have to take on next. because i have to be.